Before & Forever
What you are holding is not a collection of ideas studied from a distance. It is the testimony of two people who have walked through the fire of real covenant life and discovered that God is faithful in every single season of it.
Blanca and I did not enter marriage with all the answers. We entered it with love, with faith, and with a great deal we still needed to learn. God, in His patient and generous way, has used the daily realities of our life together to reveal Himself to us in ways we never could have encountered alone.
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- Start honest conversations about communication, money, expectations, intimacy, and faith.
- Read together at your own pace, or bring a conversation to a pastor or mentor.
- The book is purchased separately from the optional $29 couple assessment.
Six conversations. One covenant.
- I.Covenant, Not ContractGenesis 2:24
- II.Communication & ConflictJames 1:19–20
- III.Money & StewardshipMatthew 6:21
- IV.Family, Roles & ExpectationsEphesians 5:21
- V.Intimacy & FaithfulnessHebrews 13:4
- VI.Faith, Purpose & MissionJoshua 24:15
"May you love boldly, forgive quickly, and build homes where the presence of God is the most natural thing in the room."
From the dedication
The book is the start. The assessment is the conversation.
The Snapshot
Take it before you start the book to find your "start here" chapter.
Take the snapshotThe Couple's Assessment
Sixty questions each, answered alone, compared together. Bring the results to your pastor or work through them with the book.
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